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What is Dogging
The term dogging covers all outdoor sexual activities. This can be anything from a quick blow job on the street corner to masturbation in your car where everyone can see, to sex on the grass with a stranger! . What are you looking for, it is highly likely that some else out there is looking for the same thing. Dogging involves exhibitionism and voyeurism and this combination goes hand in hand. Mainly the voyeurs are men, but some women are dogging voyeurs also. Women and couples mainly do the exhibiting and often invite voyeurs to join in.
If you're thinking of going dogging for the first time, read these tips below, The tips on this page are mainly aimed at couples trying dogging for the first time. The tips are split into three sections, before, during and after the meet. If you're a single male, all the advice we can give for males is be polite, don't be pushy and only do things you are invited to do, most couples say that allowing males to join depended on how clean, polite and non pushy the males were.
Before the meet
Think about what you want form the experience and discuss this with your partner. Talk about what you both want and about how far you are willing to go. It is easy for partners to get confuesd about how far they should go. Talk about it first and agree, it could save problems later on. Make sure you are both comfortable with what you are doing.
Make sure you are prepared. It is always hand to have a small bag wiht condoms.Other useful items are wet wipes and deodorant. These items can make the meet go much easier and safer - dont put yourself at risk from others sexual health.
You may want to take some business cards with your swinging name and email so people you like can contact you again for future meets.
This pass time can be a little hit and mis when it comes to advertising. You can spend hours at some locations and not see any action and other locations can be sawmped. Neither is perfect. To get around these situations you could use a dogging board. If you advertise, don't give the exact location and time of your activity (this could result in a mass of single men wainting for you), instead just include the county and date. Ask people to email you about the meet. You can then choose from all the email who you are interested in meeting with. You can then be in control of you you invite to the location and give out closer times.
During the meet
Safety -Ensure you always stay safe and that includes your persaonl belongings. Make sure that bags and purses are out of view, safely in a glove box will do. You dont want anyone getting hold of personal details like your real name and address.Lock your doors from the inside, this will stop unwelcome visitors and keep you in control of what goes on.
Signals - The most common signals that dogger use are flashing lights, these could be interior or exterior lights. This means they're doggers. If you leave the internal light on it means you want to be watched. If you wind down your window, this means the you want to be fondled. If people want more, they tell you. Most doggers start with a show for the guys and then go further once they've picked the males that interest them. There are many more signals but most of these are really obvious, like flashing.
Too many males - If you're presented with the problem of too many males, the easiest thing to do is just ask them to back off. Most will comply with no problems, some don't. If they don't and can't take the message, simply say your going because of "that pushy bastard". Often the males watching will help remove the idiots, simply because they don't want their fun spoilt. If it's too much for you, just drive off.
After the meet - Safety & Consideration For Others
Ending it - A simple thank you to all the males that watched or took part in the fun is all that's needed. everyone will get the idea and say their goodbyes.
Cleaning up - A lot of the dogging locations are based around picnic or other public areas. Please make sure that any condoms or used tissues are put in the bin, or taken with you. Please do not litter, leaving used condoms around is a sure way of getting the area closed at night by the local council and isn't very nice for normal users of the area.
Keeping in touch - Remember those business cards, well if you find someone you'd like to meet again, you can give them your card to keep in touch if you want to.
Leaving - On heading home, make sure you do not take the direct route, go for a drive around for a little while. Just make sure that nobody has followed you home.
Talk - After it's done, you'll be high on the feeling, this is a good time to talk about what just happened. What you liked, what you didn't, what you want to do next time. As with all types of swinging, talking is the way to safeguard your relationship, remember that your relationship is far more important than a couple of hours fun.
If you are interested in Dogging and would like to find out more. Visit one of the following sites.
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